We are pleased to present for the first time in the Twin Soul Series, the feminine aspect Zarna who we feel is the appropriate one to enlighten us on the subject of  Divine Love.  Again we remind you to visit the glossary for definitions of unfamiliar terms. You will find another link at the top left of this page. 

Mel: (M:>) Zarna, I really need your help on this one. I feel that the subject of Divine Love  is beyond my ability to express adequately. I'm not even sure the definitions you have provided in the ZZ Messages are adequate. Here is what I had in mind.

I feel there is only one true form of love and that is Divine or Unconditional love for it comes from God without conditions, expectations, possessiveness or exclusion of others. Yet when we express what we receive freely, it often falls short of the real thing. Perhaps the Illusion of Separation is at work here when we add fear and control. So help me with your inspiration and wisdom. Please.

Zarna (Za:>) Sounds like you're doing a fine job of it already. Once you started listening to Caryl and came to the right Source (me) you're getting it all figured out. Could it be a little of that divine feminine wisdom is shining through that warrior's armor of masculine intellect? Humm?

M:> A lesson hard learned, Zarna. I know from where Love comes and it isn't from the intellect.

Za:> And have you said this in your definitions yet?

M:> No, not yet.

Za:> And why not?

M:> You just caused me to think of it.

Za:> Then that should come first. Divine Love comes from the feminine aspect of God--Mother God. It is not that Zeb is not capable of expressing love, he is and does; but he expresses it through me, his feminine aspect.

The reason those of your culture have such a difficult time expressing and understanding love is because you have lived for over 2000 years in a male dominated society that has done everything it could to suppress the feminine aspect. It has taken Divine Sexuality and made it into something unholy and dirty. It has taken the freedom and joy of love's expression and bound it in chains of fear and control. Then they have told you this is the way of God, "a jealous God." There is no such thing.

To understand Divine Love you must first see yourself as part of everything else.  Do away with the Illusion of Separation. To do this, rely on what your “gut feelings” tell you, not what some male dominated social or religious authority says.  Have you said this yet?

No, I thought not. To understand unconditional love you must rely on your Higher Self, or God Self to know that true love comes without conditions, without exclusions, without possessiveness and without expectations. That much you have done, but you must also realize that love is both an experience and an expression. It is an out flowing of desire, an energy that heals and uplifts to rejuvenate the soul and body.

Love is the power, the divine force of the universe that holds everything together. It is not an exchange, as in: "I'll love you, if you will love me." As an expression, it is an outpouring of feelings and desire for the well being of others. You receive that feeling in return from others, but not always from the same ones to whom you express your love. That is why love must be freely expressed.

Whenever you set limitations or boundaries on whom you can and cannot love--and yes, that includes sexual expression--you change love to meet your understandings which is always less than unconditional love.

To understand and express love, you must first do away with the Illusion of Separation. You are not separate from God -- you are God and therefore you should love everyone equally as God loves. There are no separations, no "those included" from "those excluded." Your own inner knowingness will identify others from your Soul Group who you will be attracted to. Once you understand that we are all One Soul and One God, then you can love one another as you wish to be loved in return.

Destroy the illusions and artificial barriers that separate you. Your cultures have established those out of fear and protection--which is another word for control.

Love is expressed through desire. Desire felt in the heart is divine. When the heart's desire is coupled with the loins' desire, it is still divine. It is only when it is centered solely in lust, that you'll find it less than adequate for building a relationship upon.

Yet, even lust serves the purpose of initially attracting potential mates together on a physical level so they can determine if they share more in common. Physical desire and sexual attraction begins with the Sacral Chakra and progresses to the heart and above to your God awareness spiritual centers. The desire for union--or more accurately, "reunion," is the motivating force behind all merging physically and spiritually.

M:> So let's see if I have it right. Love is both an experience and an expression, both of which are divine.

Za:> A small correction. Divine Love--unconditional love--is both an experience and an expression in all its forms--including sexual desire. When those who are unenlightened add fear to the expression of love--you get "Possessive Love,^" which is less than Divine. Fear of loss makes one desire to control, and once love is controlled, expectations are expressed as vows or legal contracts. The fear of loss drives one to feel they must defend what is theirs from others, even to the point of killing the one they supposedly loved. The more fear and control that is added to the mixture of love, the less Divine Love is expressed and fear is substituted in its place.

Peace & Love Zarna   11/05/03

From the Zeb & Zarna Messages:

5:3 I am the soaring fulfillment of love and desire that floods your heart. I am Love.

20:26   What you and we know as love is the mutual attraction that holds us together--that draws us together physically and spiritually. It is the gravity that anchors us, that holds both heavenly and earthly bodies together in a common embrace…     

20: 27 In this sense, it is that "Love is all there is." Without love comes the Illusion of Separation. With the illusion of separation comes loneliness. First comes Love, then knowledge, then experience. Knowledge applied produces experience that results in Wisdom. But without Love the force, [without] the power and passion behind the coming together of all things, there is nothing.

Melvyn Caryl   11-05-03

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