often have these words been cried by one in the throes of an
orgasm? Care to venture a guess? I wouldn't. They are so common
they're almost clichéd, yet many still deny that sex is a divine
experience. The reason for this is that almost all religions have
tried their best to disassociate God from any form of human sexual
experience, especially those involving pleasure. These not only include our Western religions but those
of Eastern origin which most Westerners think are pro-sex--like Tantric
yoga, Hinduism, Buddhism and Taoism--to name a few.
the fact remains, God and human sexual pleasure have always been associated together, and I don't mean: "be
fruitful and multiply." Sexual pleasure is a divine
godly experience shared between the inner and outer bodies and
between two or more
regardless of gender. This divine experience can and often does
culminate in Divine Communion. Most religions have tried to
separate their initiates from this experience by teaching their values
celibacy and abstinence.
is this? One reason is that even atheists can have a supernatural,
paranormal, miraculous experience--a Communion with All
That Is, without the tenets and precepts of religion. Where
is the control of the priests and gurus if one can bypass their authority and experience the ultimate connection of God
directly? It is exactly where it should be—non-existent.
from our Western Culture find it almost sacrilege to associate
human sexual pleasure with God. It is no wonder. For the past 3000
years individual connection with God had been discouraged. Yet
many today are discovering the truth behind the words found in Conversations
with God, Book III, (See Resource page. ) where it
suggests in order to understand God we must first turn our altars
into places for making love and our bedrooms into places of
worship. This familiar verse, "Where
two or more are joined in my name ... there I will be," takes on a completely different meaning.
don't need a priest,
guru, Imam, or holy man as an intermediary between you and God.
You don't even need me. You
are God and your connection with your Creator Gods can be achieved
through recognition and successful manipulation of life force
energy. A one-on-one Divine Communion with God, and Sacred Sex
with each other, can be expressed and celebrated between two or
more lovers--regardless of gender.
It will be shocking for some to realize, as we will present later
from another authoritative source, that with Classic
Tantric Yoga women were not considered worthy of being
initiates. They were only substitutes for the goddess Shakti and their participation was
for the men's spiritual enlightenment. Granted, contemporary
Tantric yoga has become more liberated, but one should never
overlook the root
belief of the modern-day adaptation. An initiate can never truly
know how much of the ancient beliefs have been retained.
Divine Sexuality and
is the expression of the masculine/feminine aspects in perfect
union. Divine Sexuality can be, but is not restricted to, the
physical expression of spiritual love making where all aspects are
in harmony. For instance, Zarna requested that we use our Divine
Sexuality to write an article on the Comprehensive Guide
to the Soul. In this context she was referring to the balance of
our (Melvyn Caryl’s) inner masculine/feminine aspects and
suggesting Melvyn Caryl use their individual strengths in creation
of that article. This also relates to the union of opposite forces
that hold matter together. All creation has been invested with
such intended balance.
is Sacred Sex:
Includes all consensual sex occurring between individuals wherein
love, honor and respect are expressed in passion.
Contrary to what most believe, even lust
is sacred, for it is the divine attraction of the Universal
Law of Attraction (like attracts like) that draws one to
another in the quest for their spiritual mates and eventually
Twin Soul. However, not all Sacred
Sex elevates to the level of Divine
Sexuality where masculine and feminine aspects are balanced
in perfectly harmony. We will expand on this later in this
is Divine Communion?
Divine Communion is simply the connection through life force
energy with our Source; however, there is nothing simple about it.
It takes an awareness of the process to make the connection unless
it happens spontaneously—which often
leaves the person wondering—what in the world just happened? The
answer is it is not
of this world but a touch into the inner reality. For one
is rarely the same after such an experience.
“how to” books have been written on every aspect of the sexual
experience--from marriage manuals to complete religious followings
such as Tantric Yoga and Kabbalic Judaism. An adequate
presentation of "how
to" is beyond the scope of this article, but Zeb & Zarna
are revealing to us what they explain are the essentials of
the Ancient Mysteries of
We do not believe that this is just another modern-day makeover of
something lost in antiquity, but rather a reintroduction of what was once given and long since forgotten,
now brought to life again by the Twin Soul Goddess, Zarna for a New Awakening.
There is a connection between the feminine emotion of passion
and between Kundalini and Divine
the masculine/feminine energies are in alignment, Kundalini or
life force energy is the driving force which brings one to Divine
Communion. Therefore, we must first discuss the sacredness of passion
and how our Chakra energy points come into play.
Life Force Energy
I mentioned in my article, How It
Began: The Channeling
Process Zeb's very first message to me was on "Kundalini."
Perhaps it would be appropriate to list it here (it's a short
A man's "Ka" (life force) his masculine aspect, moves
from the base, or Root Chakra, upwards finally reaching his
spiritual or Crown Chakra. This controls everything he does and
eventually is his defeat, unless he listens to his feminine
aspect and follows her nature.
2. A woman's "Ka" her feminine aspect moves from the
Crown Chakra (her God-centeredness) downward
finally reaching her Root or Base Chakra. This controls everything
she does and is why she outlasts a man.
3. A man and woman are drawn to each other by the Yin and Yang of
attraction--the desire for unity and harmony, but are kept
together by their balance of ka--as long as both
fill centeredness that is good--you have lasting unity, but not
total harmony and oneness.
Think of it as two pyramids one over the other with the masculine
aspect its base centered on the Root Chakra and its peak reaching
the Crown Chakra and the feminine aspect its reverse.
It is important to make a distinction here between male
(man and woman) and masculine/feminine aspects. What this message
establishes is that both genders have masculine and feminine aspects. Far too many
self-appointed authorities on this subject depict the woman as all
feminine and a man is all
An individual within him/her self has all
that is necessary for reaching the state of Divine Communion
with God. This is the inner and outer merging of the individual's
spiritual body (soul) and physical body and the balance of their
own masculine/ feminine energies. So
for whatever reason, if it is not your choice or opportunity to
"merge" with another you are not deprived Divine
Two individuals who thus join their masculine and feminine
energies in sacred physical union need not be a man and a woman.
If that isn't clear enough we will bold it…
Same-sex unions are not excluded.
Passion as we see in #3 above is what draws two together. There
must be a balance
between the masculine and feminine energies, not only within
oneself, but together as a couple. This “balance”
brings "unity and harmony" is created by fulfilling "centeredness"
of the physical (Root Chakra--Masculine) and spiritual (Crown
Chakra--Feminine) needs. And as has been said elsewhere, the
ancient "Star of David" has a much older meaning—it
signifies the perfect balance of masculine and feminine
ZZ Message #12 (Channeled
by Caryl on
discusses this Divine Communion and its relationship to Kundalini.
This is a connection that women more often achieve spontaneously
than men. Her conversation with Zeb is revealing:
C:> So we can commune with God, In the State of
Oneness at anytime we choose?
Z:> Yes, that is correct.
Is this like my recent experience where I have achieved a
heightened state of awareness by manipulating the kundalini
Yes, that's it, exactly.
a later message (ZZ Message #47, channeled by me from Zarna on
Zarna explains more to Caryl what she is experiencing.
Daughter of my heart, how does one explain in words levels of
Ecstasy? You have discovered what some call "Kundalini”[awakening]
but it is much more than that. You have discovered the true
feeling of Communion with All That Is. The fire you feel
that circulates within you, regenerating and spewing forth from
your Crown Chakra is pure energy of mergence. It comes as close to
the experience of being one with Zeb [and Zarna] as your mortal
kind will ever know.
3. Teach it as "Divine Communion" to only those
who are learned in the other things we teach, for this is not for
everyone. Not because of separations we make, but because of where
you have to be in order to experience it.
4. Divine Communion has so many uses that are pure feminine.
It will enable you to reach beyond us to others at your level,
ours, and above. That is why I choose to call it "Divine
Communion." Through it you will come to know your sisters
5. Divine Communion will also enable you to travel and
"see" far into your future and deep into your pasts, and
go there. It is one of the keys to the Mysteries of Isis
that she shared with only a few of her Princesses.
6. Divine Communion will also enable you to rejuvenate your
physical body, when mixed with the essence of your Eternal Mate
[Twin Soul] you will bring about the alchemic process of renewal
through this mixture of Life. This is a Mystery that must be
revealed from within, as it has been [to Caryl].
This is truly far beyond the range of mere human sexuality and is what Dr. Jenny Wade
presents in her new book Transcendent
Sex: When Lovemaking Opens The Veil (See our Resource
page). While she focuses on spontaneous occurrences, rather than
those resulting from a spiritual practice, Dr. Wade establishes
quite firmly within her case studies of ninety-one "everyday
people" that it can and does happen. People do have
paranormal spiritual , "Transcendent Sexual
Experiences" that mirror what Caryl and I have experienced,
and that Zarna terms
as Divine Communion. Quite
often, this happens without a spiritual foundation. Which proves
to me that God is within all
of us, whether or not we know or accept that fact.
But drawing your attention back to the above statements from ZZ
Message #47 it should be noted that if
Divine Communion is something you want to experience by
design, rather than a spontaneous occurrence, one doesn’t begin
with Divine Sexuality.
Achieving this state is only part
of a much larger spiritual experience which begins with
preparation of the "inner/outer" readiness of body, soul
and spirit accompanied with a mental preparation that includes
"house cleaning" of old restrictive beliefs.
Hello everyone. So far, I have been so good at restraining my
enthusiasm about this subject and letting Mel ramble on now for
five pages, but I just couldn’t hold back any longer.
Why, did I say something wrong?
Of course not, everything you have said so far is exactly right. But since I am a grandmother with some experience
in this I just wanted to get in my two cents.
Mel:> All right Twin. I’m sure our readers will enjoy the
feminine spin on this. I give you have the floor.
Thank you, Mel. It is important to me that this part of the
subject be spoken about in a straight
forward and to the point manner. Had I had some direction over 20
years ago, when I began to feel a strange arousal
during meditation, I would have not lost years of a connection
that now brings me such joy. My ignorance was at fault, and now
that I understand I choose to pass this knowledge on.
As Mel was saying, certain beliefs can hold one back from the
Communion with God experience.
I will put ignorance at the top of the list, followed by feelings of unworthiness;
of God; the illusion of separation between man and God; the belief
that sex is a lower nature act and not God-given for the
purpose of joy and creation; and the belief that one must have an intermediary of some kind
to interface between them and God will inevitably restrict the
necessary flow of energy and block this experience. If you hold
any one of these beliefs, it is not
impossible to achieve communion, but you are seriously limiting
to" for a complete beginner cannot not be adequately addressed
in an article, nor can it be taught by reading alone. However some
people have stumbled on this experience—as I did—and perhaps
we can help you identify feelings associated with the beginnings
of this awakening and what to do with them.
experience can happen with a partner while having sex. It can
happen that one or both partners achieve a transcendent experience
during the same sexual intercourse that brings both to Communion
with God at the same time. I see this as the ultimate
experience—where the Two, who become One, become four. Two children (us) become one with their spiritual Parents
(Mother Father God). There are no rules. And when sharing loves
intimacies with a partner all expectations should be put aside. The
attainment of orgasm or spiritual enlightenment is not
the goal. The goal is to lose oneself in love. Nothing more.
This is what Zeb is talking about in Message # 5:3:
I am the tear that falls from your eye. I am the soaring
fulfillment of love and desire that floods your heart. I am Love.
This can also happen independently when sex with a partner is not
a factor at all, and often does through meditation or just a
heightened experience brought about by something beautiful. How
many times have you listened to a piece of beautiful music and
felt the warmth of love and passion ripple through your body? How
many times have you been brought to tears at the angel-like
innocence of a child or the magnificence of a towering mountain,
the beauty in the feel of your lover’s touch, the
look of wonder in his or her eyes?
These are moments of connection when your Heart
Chakra is stimulated.
What does that feel like? Can you remember? Can you go there? If
you can, you have made the first and the most
important connections of the magic three. Root Chakra, (physical) Heart Chakra, (Passion)
Crown Chakra, (spiritual connection)
is recognizing kundalini energy. Many hesitate to discuss the
actual sensations that can accompany activation
of kindalini energy. For some it can feel like a slight
tingling at the base of the spine, for others like myself mild
sexual arousal or a minor burning sensation of the genitals. I
find it discouraging that because of prevalent sexual attitudes in
our country and many others, most who write about life force
energy (kundalini) dodge the issue and do not explain this. Life
force energy is the same energy that is felt
with sexual arousal. The difference is what you do with this
step is moving the energy. If
one feels this energy it can be mentally pulled up from the Root
Chakra and through the Crown Chakra for the blissful connection of
Divine Communion with your Creator. Note! Even if you don’t feel any sensations of this energy, but feel strong
emotion, imagine it and try pulling the energies through your body.
it up, by imagining a thermomenter running through the center of
your body parallel to the spine. Imagine the mercury flowing
upward until it explodes out your head through the Crown Chakra.
takes a certain amount of energy to achieve, and if one is
physically ill or under physical or emotional stress, where the
masculine/feminine energies are out of attunement, the energy will
not flow properly. But
once you achieve the flow and the connection is made, you become
energized and it is no longer an effort. The feeling is incredible—like
liquid fire. It is euphoric. It can and often does last for
hours—even days. It is Bliss!
Zarna describes in her Alchemy of
Healing article, this energy force brought through the
body and connected with the Source, can also be used for healing
through transfer of this energy by touch.
Wow, now that’s what I call “straight talk.”
Well, how can they know unless we’re up front. My first
experience with Kundalini happened back in the 70’s (1970’s)
but I didn’t know what it was or what to do with it. I
just thought I was horny! After all, I was completely by myself
meditating. No lover, and no sexual thoughts--just this feeling.
It can be very confusing, especially if one is from a religious
background where any sexual feelings connected with God is considered
deviant. This was not my case, but it was still confusing.
I guess that it would be. And
like you said, others can learn from your experience.
I am happy to share. And I am through, my Twin. You can take it
from there. I believe you were about to give some “straight
talk” of your own.
where was I… With
Caryl’s explanations you can see that some people can approach
this through self- discovery, and if that still doesn't result in
what you would like to achieve, you may need instruction.
Now that we have learned about the forces behind
“Divine Communion” (Passion and Kundalini) it is time to
discuss "Sacred Sex.” As
you will have discovered elsewhere in our articles, there are
definite levels of the Soul and God. There are also levels of
"Sacred Sex." All sex is divine, just some forms are
more divine than others. And here we are speaking of physical
sexuality between partners. In order to make the transition from
Sacred Sex and Divine Sexuality, it is necessary for us to take a
look at common sexual practices.
Perhaps we should start with an attempt at humor. You have no
doubt heard there is no such thing as "bad sex," or that even "bad sex" is better than "no sex" at all. Well,
that is debatable, but
few would argue that it is no fun to have sex with a "hobosexual."
What is a "hobosexual?" (a "bum lay")
Object Oriented Sex of the "Hobosexual:"
A male "hobosexual" is one whose soul objective is in
getting his own climax. He's the one who has to ask, "Did you
get yours?" (If you have to ask, she didn't).
A female "hobosexual" is one who endures
the sexual experience as her role in the marriage responsibility.
Often it is not either the man's or woman's fault but the result
of our cultural upbringing, ignorance, and the fact that, contrary
to what most men think, good sex does not come naturally. The
focus for a woman like this is not on getting her orgasm—for she
probably rarely if ever does—it is on getting it over--as soon
It is tragic when two people waste such divine potential, but most men have to
be taught how to make love to a woman. And a wise man will learn
the God-created magical differences between male and female
sexuality from a woman.
Unfortunately, a boring sex life is often the cause of
infidelity. No one would like to be served the same meal
three times a day, day after day, week after week, year after
year. This kind of
sexual practice falls far short of the balanced M/F harmonies
necessary for Divine Sexuality. How can this be remedied?
Harmony -- Other Person Oriented Sex
The next step for greatest results is Partnership
Preparation. We are dealing with the most intimate and
personal interaction between two people, therefore there is a
necessary bonding of trust and confidence that must occur before
progression is possible. This is why most facilitators of Sacred
Sex techniques prefer to work with couples,
showing one how to administer to the needs of the other, for
in most cases--Transcendent experiences occur to the one who
passively receives--it is "God's Gift" from one to
another. This is not to say that a couple can’t experience this
together, it is just not as likely to happen in the beginning.
focus must shift from: "I got mine," to helping each
other toward fulfillment. But more than that--the shift is must be
less on expectations
or goals and more on the
couple enjoying each other, having fun by breaking up the
routines, being creative and enjoying and prolonged pleasure of
the senses. Surprise takes the
place of predictability and roles are often reversed. But this is
not a marriage manual, if you need help there are many good books
on the subject and if the couple is earnest in finding solutions,
new discovery can be a rewarding journey.
How about Dr. Ruth? J
Have you been talking to Zarna?
She may have whispered in my ear.
Zarna expanded on this recently when she was speaking of heterosexual
relationships that these connections happen when men…
to respect women, and
for women to honor men,
and to lift each other in love and communion. This truly is 'Divine
Sexuality,' Communion with the God in each other."
Once the couple has achieved balance they are prepared to
bridge two worlds—transcending physical limitations to Divine
Communion with their Source.
Sex -- A Paranormal Divine Sexual Experience.
Transcendent Sex was the vehicle
through which many adepts of the Ancient Mystery Schools achieved
miracles. Zarna is just beginning to reveal this process through
her Alchemy Articles (See her The Alchemy of Healing).
remember, you can't learn this from reading just articles.
Dr. Wade in her book, Transcendent Sex wisely cautions the
aspiring seeker to be extremely cautious when searching for a
place to learn Divine Sexuality. She advises her readers
if they are interested in making it happen to check
into any practice carefully? We echo these words.
But How? I promise if you do a
web search on Sacred Sex instruction and you will come up with
over 75,000 listings. To
our knowledge most are not listed with the Better Business Bureau
or even with a professional organization to protect your (and their)
interests. Dr Wade does an excellent job of showing how difficult
this is, even with those organizations most commonly associated
with open sexuality.
says: “Many believe the Eastern religions are real open
minded when it comes to encouraging the exploration and
experimentation of human sexuality, but such could not be farther
from the truth. Most of these liberated religions
actually teach celibacy and abstinence. [Mel's Note -- Just the
opposite of what most of you who are reading this article are
example Dr Wade says:
stories of divine couples in Hinduism, such as the god Shiva and
goddess Shakti, and Karishna and Radha whose relationships are
primarily sexual, carnal desire, is to be avoided at all
costs [my emphasis] because it chains humanity to the world of
illusion." (pg 4)
[In other words, if you want to enjoy sex--forget it]
"Similarly in Buddhism, classic texts such as the Visuddhimagga
deny worldly pleasures to aspirants. Serious seekers were, and
are, expected to be celibate, if not actually ascetic. In fact the
cessation of sexual desires is considered one of the marks
of the adept [my emphasis], the natural outgrowth of
effective spiritual practice." (pg 4)
[Again, if you want to enjoy
sex -- forget it]
Vajrayana Buddhism and Taoism aren't the straightforward pro
sex paths many people think. Tantra is a yogic practice
that began as a counter cultural movement of reverse
spirituality—that is doing the opposite of religious
convention in a kind of Crazy Wisdom in which eating forbidden food, drinking forbidden
drinks, violating taboos, and engaging in sex
could be ritualized into a path for realization. Even in
Tantra actual sex is given up as quickly as possible."
[my emphasis] (pg 5)
[So this is the "forbidden fruits" of Tantra--"violating
"A mystical branch that emerged in the Middle Ages, sexual
intercourse became a powerful spiritual act that enabled spouses [my emphasis] to participate in the male and female
aspects of God
sustaining the cosmos. Even though sex is expected for married
couples [my emphasis, again] on most holy days there is ambivalence about experiencing too much
pleasure." (pg. 5)
[In other words, forget it--unless you are married to your
"Sexuality is consecrated in the Qu'ran and its mystical
forms are rife with a
feminine principle and a sacraliation of intercourse. But
mainstream Islam became conservative about sex and today widely regards
women as a chaotic element in Moslem society."
(pg. 6) (Caryl's emphasis! )
[So much for women equality--you won't find it here]
So, where do you look, and what to look for?
Word to the Wise -- Exercise Extreme Caution:
We are in total agreement with Dr. Wade when it comes to
exercising caution. But how? An organization which supposedly
teaches a liberated view of human sexuality, an established
organization whose staff or faculty abounds with many impressive
PhD's, is no guarantee
of its qualification.
I hold two legitimate Bachelor of Science Degrees--Economics
and Behavioral Science, and
two Master of Arts Degrees—Humanities and Literature, but none of these qualify me to do what I have been chosen to do.
Zeb chose me to be a channeler (Speaker) and has given me a few
gifts of a spiritual nature. I
didn't choose this. It came as a result of my Near Death
Experience where I was shown later I was needed for this
with my Twin Soul. What
organization is going to certify me? I've been a practicing
hypnotist for the past 45 years, experienced in regression and ESP
research. Do I need to be certified by organizations that came
about long after I was already an accomplished hypnotist?
My point is, you are no more certain of the qualifications of your
Sacred Sex practitioner than you will be of the qualifications of
your next lover. Sometimes you have to rely on your gut feelings,
your Guardian Angels, and test the temperature of the water with
you plunge in head-first.
Remember this is God-given information. Consider your selection carefully and remember that most
who teach out of love do so for the love of each other, not for
the love of money. There
is much to consider and this is just the beginning of the subject,
but the end of this article. We will add another article on this
subject when Zeb and Zarna give
us more information.
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