of Our Love,
this, Zarna and I speak as One, but since recognizing
synchronicities is part of the feminine ability, rather than
masculine intellect, I'm sure Zarna will have something to say
is a word you associate with similarities you find which are more
than coincidence and you are
correct as far as that goes. But where your popular definition
leads you astray is in thinking you share synchronicities with
only your Twin.
purpose is not to disillusion you, nor destroy your hopes of
identifying your Perfect Love (Twin Soul) but to clarify some
things that others who use this term may not. This is our
definition of synchronicities. If it rings true to you, then
accept it. We often use the same common words (symbols) others do,
but clarify the meanings with our truths.
are recognizable similarities between you and others; yet,
synchronicities are not limited to your dimension or to your
current life alone. Nor are they limited to just similarities as
you will soon see. Synchronicities are vibrational wave-form
patterns that transcend time and dimension that you not only share
with us, your Spiritual Parents, but also you share with your past
lives and all those around you to a greater or lesser degree.
transcend dimensions between the spiritual and physical in that
they are created in the physical by your soul.
transcend time in that both gendered halves of one Twin Soul
carries these vibrations from one incarnation to another. In other
words, all who you are and who you have ever been share many striking
synchronicities with those of your soul who follow you.
you bear the most synchronicities with your opposite gendered Twin
Soul. He or she is your soul. These synchronicities are often a
good indicator of your connection, but not always.
You Be Misguided By Synchronicities?
Of course you can. Synchronicities are subject to interpretation
through eyes often clouded with love. You will see in your lover
what your Heart wants
you to see, for a while. So, is it best to use your own god-given masculine
intelligence and logic to determine synchronicities?
Hardly! Things of the Heart are the truths of God and are never
determined by the Intellect. You know that Zeb!
I was just setting you up to clarify a point that you and I both
know, but there are those who read this who will be misled by so
called "Ageless Wisdom."
are as we have said, wave-form vibrations you share with all
souls, including the "All Soul." Among those who are
incarnated you will find the greatest synchronicities with your
Twin Soul, your perfect or complete spiritual mate, and will share
the least with those non-spiritual physical mates.
these two extremes you will find a cascading order of diminishing
synchronicities. Your Twin will be at the top, followed closely by
your Near Twins and then your Companion Mates.
When we wrote the above we were unaware
of the synchronic impact
that occurs when Near Twins
have had several close intimate past life experiences. In these
cases the synchronicities between them are unbelievable. It is no
wonder that so often the Near Twin is mistaken for the Twin Soul
especially if Near Twins have previous charted relationships
Those of your
immediate Twin Soul Family will share the most, followed by those
of your Mission Group, and Soul Group. But even those of distant
Soul Groups share some synchronicities for all are of God.
and relationships vary according to how and when your soul was
created. Contrary to what some believe, not all souls were created
at the same time. One of your Near Twins will be so close to you
in synchronicities you will not be able to easily tell the
difference between them and your Twin Soul.
And what's so bad about that? They are part of you immediate Twin
Now you are playing the part of the "set-up man?"
Set up "woman" if I were physical.
There is nothing "bad" about being merged with a Near
Twin, except for one thing. Near Twins have their own
Twin Souls (which is not you) and they could leave you
eventually for their own Twin Soul. Your true Twin Soul will never
leave you, even parted by time, distance or the condition you
"problem" with too much reliance on synchronicities is
that many of you think of synchronicities as only similarities
and not dissimilarities. Synchronicities generated by soul
dualities are dualities in themselves. You have both similarities
and dissimilarities. Your strengths will be matched by his
weaknesses and vice-versa.
the edges of two interlocking pieces of a jigsaw puzzle were
smooth there would be no bond. The same applies to your soul
problem with too much reliance on synchronicities is the
misconception that you are the only current living
incarnation of you--your gendered half of a Twin Soul (not
speaking of the other half of the Twin Soul in this case). It is
so rare that it is hardly worth mentioning but
it is possible that one gendered half of a Twin Soul will
incarnate into two bodies at once and one of them may be male and
the other female. What would happen in this extremely unlikely
situation is that you would find that he or she matches you 100%.
After all he or she is you in another body. You would think for
sure you had met your Twin (using synchronicities only) when
instead you have met yourself in a different gendered body.
of the jigsaw puzzle piece again. Instead of two pieces that
interlock perfectly forming a bond (as Twins do) you would have
two identical pieces that form no interlocking bond. This is the one exception to the Universal
Law of Attraction (Like Attracts Like). In this case you are too
much alike and repel each other.
So what is best? Just forget the whole synchronicities thing?
Hardly! Use synchronicities as the proofs the mind needs, that the
heart already knows, but also use your "gut feelings" to
assure you. Herein you have a balance of the masculine and
feminine aspects within you for guidance.
You mentioned earlier that synchronicities carry forward from one
incarnation into the next, as well as between the parallel lives
of developing Twins. Could you give us some examples?
Sure. All we have to do is look at our Speakers, Melvyn Caryl.
Melvyn and Caryl were both dancers in this life at an early
age--both in ballroom dancing; Caryl in classical ballet and folk
dancing. Both have had one previous marriage they thought to be
"unsuccessful" but later discovered is was a planned
learning experience they created in the before-life. Both have had
what most think of as "psychic experiences" (but were
really "spiritual experiences").
has always been sensitive to places where great human trauma
occurred like the fields of
from the Battle of New Orleans and the "Suicide Cliff"
where so many
citizens leaped to their deaths afraid of the American invaders
during World War II. Caryl has had visions of the past and future,
is guided and guides
others in their spiritual quest.
are novelists as well as writers of non-fiction spiritual works
but Melvyn writes action adventure stories; whereas Caryl writes
romance and love stories. Together they write paranormal action
adventure love stories with a spiritual bent.
independently chose the same spiritual path and through this met
each other. Both are Speakers of our Message, but Melvyn is more
fluid in transcribing dialogue, Caryl, our "Soaking
Prophetess" (Caryl note! I do much meditation in the
bathtub!) receives more information related to feelings and
individual relationships during her meditations. Melvyn is a
"Contact Healer" and Caryl is a "Remote Healer.”
does past and future life readings and Caryl does dream
interpretations. These are but a few of the synchronicities of
these Twins that they share in this life. Their past lives were
interwoven to such an extent that what happened in
their past life affects their current life.
example, Caryl experiences a persistent back pain which baffles
the doctors because they can’t find the cause. The reason they
cannot find a cause is that it is not directly attributed to this
life and body but her previous one as
an American dance hall girl in the 1870's who died of a broken
in this life has never had any interest in gambling because as
friend, he was a professional gambler. He died of a gunshot wound
in his Twin's (Virginia's) arms. His blood was on her hands and
dress. They had come with others fleeing the ravages and
destruction of your Civil War. His life ended on a dusty saloon
was so distraught that blinded by her tears, she ran out of the
saloon and stole the first buckboard she came to. She raced out of
town with no thought to where she was going or why. Outside of
town, she took a curve near a ravine too fast and the buckboard
and horse went over the side. She died with her blood mixed with
his and her final thoughts were that they would be together again
and things would be different.
was right, for in that twilight moment before transition from your
world back to Home she had a knowing. This is why a few years ago
in this life she fought so strongly to hold Melvyn to this
life when he was about to transition to the Otherside. They had
just met and although neither of them knew it at the time, the
work they had come here to do had not even begun.
may think this is fiction created by a writer's mind, but it
doesn't matter. These are examples of real synchronicities. Two
may meet for a brief instant in different place and time,
exchanging names and brief looks, and meet again two decades later
halfway across a country or world and something
is what some call a coincidence,
but there are no coincidences. Others will say, "It's a small
world, isn't it?" But this has nothing to do with the smallness of your world,
which hasn't changed physical size, but has grown in population
exponentially in the last twenty years. Want to guess what the
mathematical probability would be of you two meeting again if you
weren't Twins? The probability would be greater than you winning
one of your lotteries or the National Publisher's Sweepstakes.
is a Divine hand (ours) involved when Twins meet, whether they are
ready for Twin Soul reunion or not. This readiness has nothing to
do with personal will, but with soul development the
masculine/feminine balance within each of you regardless of
as has been said before in these articles, previous vows or
arrangements with a husband or wife has no limitation on the
Universal Law of Attraction when it is time for you to come
together. You have had hundreds of husbands or wives and thousands
of children, but only one Twin
Soul from the beginning.
It is through synchronicities you will discover your current
connections, plus with a deep inner knowing that comes from your
higher consciousness, your Composite Soul, you will know when you
have met your Twin. As we have said through Melvyn, women will usually be the first to know, and will usually be the ones to
awaken their male Twins to the reality of what is, but not before
he is spiritually close to balance with his own inner masculine
and feminine aspects.
he is truly bi-gender balanced in Soul Development his inner
feminine self will hear your words as truth and he will awaken to
the reality of your connection. If not, he will use his masculine
intellect to try and logic it out and come up with all the wrong
conclusions. He is not ready.
use synchronicities to discover not only Who You Are, but also who
your Twin is. However, it doesn't end there. Twin Souls reunited
in the physical realm are a beacon of Light and Love to a darkened
world. They attract others of their Soul Family with the
vibrational pull of their words and our words. This is part of the ingathering, the
coming together of Soul Families, that is the prelude of the Age
of the Twin Soul Goddess--the Age of Aquarius, beginning in your
year of 2012.
the same means you use to recognize your Twin, you will know us as
your Spiritual Parents, and our children will know each other
through our Speakers. The Universal Law of Attraction,
unconditional love, will draw you to "The Voice" and
when all is ready, draw you to the eventual seminars and retreats
that will result from "The Voice."
is the Zeb and Zarna Mission. It is a spiritual
that is all about "People Meeting People" -- a drawing
together where they are free to be themselves without dogmatic
restrictions. This is all part of the awakening to the greater
reality of Who You Are.
With Love Always,
& Zarna 11/13/04
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