The Voice of Zeb and
Visit With Mel
Sex Twin Souls
And other Clarifications:
we Use and Why
It should come as no
complete surprise to anyone that one's physical gender or sexual
preferences has nothing to do with their bi-gender balance and being drawn
to their Twin Soul. Yet, a careless misinterpretation by even me can
result in that.
But how, you may ask of me, the one who receives these words
directly from Zeb and Zarna?
channelers receive knowings in a burst of information from the
other side to which we use our words to transcribe or
translate what we receive to give to others. Remember,
"God does not speak with words, we do."
Well, it is true, and
everywhere words are used, they are subject to misinterpretation for they
are but symbols of the meaning they represent. Let me give you the example that
misled me from The Soul's Development:
Maturity vs Age. It
occurs in a dialogue between Zeb and myself.
Mel:> Then the Homo-g
cannot meet his or her Twin Soul?
Zeb:> No more so than the Hetero-g can.
For those who don't remember
the "Hetero-g" and "Homo-g" terms, those are the two
end extremes of the scale with "bi-gender" balance in the
middle. I began to make the connection between the soul development
of "hetero-gender" and the physical state of
the "Alpha male, in my mind at that moment, dominant, ego
driven etc, and the opposite extreme "Homo-gendered" as
gay and lesbian.
For those quicker of wit than
I am--what was the first mistake that should have jumped out at me? If you
guessed forgetting the title of the
article, "The Soul's
Development," you are right.
But Zeb reminded me for
reasons only He knows that I am one of their two Speakers
and as such a devoted teacher of their truth.
It is up to me to clarify my own mistakes when they are
brought to my attention by anyone--especially ZZ. For
anyone who demonstrates anything
less than full love and acceptance to any of their spiritual brothers and
sisters is not demonstrating
unconditional love, love
without expectations and
Perhaps this should show all
of us how easy it is to read over a spiritual text and not
"get it." Yet for me, each time I repeat the study,
something new opens up like a light coming on. I’m sure we have all had
this experience. Perhaps
that is part of the fun of it. Something "new" opens up
in our understanding every time we go over familiar material. We
never really reach the state where we know it all--at
least not in this physical plane. Our minds can't contain it
all and we must rely on
handicap of words.
Well, for this one Zeb had to
pull my chain a little to wake me up.
two women (or two men) providing both have reached the state of soul
development where they balance their inner feminine and masculine
tendencies (emotions, intuition, and sensitivity to intellect, logic and inner
strength--(Bi-Gender Balance) can
is brought about by the experience of life and is usually accelerated
by an awakening usually triggered spiritual study. Read the new article,
"A Change of Heart" (which will be posted soon) that shows the
process of spiritual development through seven stages of
growth. This gives my personal trials and tribulations of my path as an
example of what at least one person experienced. Caryl may add her
experiences to give another.
soul has their primary “soul-gender” or aspect, from the moment
of the first Twin Soul split and they
are incarnated as male and female.
But the soul is energy
it has no gender. Perhaps force,
aspect or orientation would be a better words.
often one incarnates in that masculine or feminine aspect as male or female gender, but not always. Now the scenario becomes interesting. What if two women--one of
whom has a primary soul gender, force, aspect or orientation as
masculine--reach their bi-gender balance in the same lifetime? If they are
Twin Souls to each other they will be drawn together and no power of
"Heaven or Earth" can prevent it.
I'll bet most of you, like me, considered that those
words related to Twins who are married to their respective Companion
Mates--like Caryl and me. Well, that is one example, but not the only
one. Sexual persuasion can be another. When the time comes to move, we are
moved by powers beyond our control. This is the Universal Law of
Attraction ("like attracts like"). When the souls are ready,
You may wonder why a soul with a primary
masculine orientation would
incarnate as a female. Simple ...
To experience the fullness of the human experience you must have "walked in the
for at least once in your many lifetimes. All
development results from experience and if you haven't "been there and done
that" in at least one past or current life
then you have not experienced all of "the human experience."
This is but one example of the learning experience of having "been
there and done that."
Read The Dark Side of the Light Chasers
(see our recommended reading
list) for other examples of life
experience that helps develop empathy and true understanding of oneness.
To be complete we all experience every facet of life.
So the masculine soul
aspect we referred to above chooses for his final life experience
incarnation as a woman and reaches bi-gender
balance. Remember, Twin Soul reunion does not occur until
your final physical
incarnated life experience. She may well
live out her entire life experience heterosexually inclined, or
reach the point where she feels she has gained all there is from
that sexual persuasion and choose to become homosexually inclined, or somewhere in the middle (bisexually inclined). It is
up to her and her choices.
Once two who are incarnated reach bi-gender balance they will be drawn
together as One, regardless of gender or sexual persuasion. On
the Other side, it doesn't make any difference--we are all energy over
Twin Flames, Twin Souls &
Yin and Yang
Once we were asked what was
the difference between "Twin Flames" and Twin Souls and
somewhere we answered, nothing, they are the
same. But it is worth mentioning again here.
The term "Twin Flames"
is of Sufi origin and "Twin Souls" dates back so far into antiquity its
origin can't be accurately determined, but
refer to the masculine and
feminine aspects we all have within us and the special link each of us share with the other
half of our soul. It is similar
to the concept of "Yin & Yang." Some New Age writers don’t buy into the concept yet they still teach that we are
all composites of masculine and feminine natures and often use the "intellect"
and "emotion" as contrasts. Few authoritative sources anymore
claim we are either "All Male" or "All Female." Even psychologists
have bought into their own version of "Right-brain vs
"A rose is a rose" regardless of what it’s called.
A Word About the Terminology we Use and Why
We have been asked why we use such terms as Composite
Soul, Bi-Gender Balance, Hetero-G and Homo-G etc.
We do use some new terms, but actually try as much as possible to use
terms that many will associate with. For instance the term God.
Caryl asked Zeb long ago if this term should be replaced with something
that is more in line with the multifaceted energy being we are part of
(God). However ZZ instructed us that changing the word God would confuse
the issue, and that when possible to use the familiar and only re-term
when what is typically used does not actually fit the new understanding as
given by ZZ.
For example, many might call the Composite Soul the Higher Self.
And it is, but the word Higher Self does not give the
picture that we are more than One. We are legion—and our higher self
comprises all of that which we are and have been. It took us some time to
agree on many of the terms that would more accurately define ZZ’s
teachings. The same goes for Bi-Gender Balance. Many call this an
androgynous state. But the word picture that brings is not what we wished
to imply. ZZ tells us that in physicality we are always our created
aspect even if we choose to incarnate as the opposite gender—masculine
or feminine. Feminine or Masculine does not become a cross between the
two—we simply balance the aspect of our inner twin—the opposite
aspect that is always part of us but lays dormant until we begin to use it
in balance. It is not until we unite through the ceremony of the Marriage
of Lights on the Otherside that we become One androgynous
being, in essence fully reunited or merged with our Twin Soul.
We welcome your comments on this article and questions on
term or concept we constantly use. But first check in the Glossary to see if it is there, and then if further clarification is still
necessary, please email us. If we don't know we will
take it to ZZ and we will share what we get here on The Voice.
We are all One and loved by God
as the Gods and Goddesses we are.
Love to All,
Melvyn Caryl 6/4/05
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