|

Mel:> Then the Homo-g
cannot meet his or her Twin Soul?
Zeb:> No more so than the Hetero-g can.
For those who don't remember
the "Hetero-g" and "Homo-g" terms, those are
the two end extremes of the scale with "bi-gender" balance in the
middle. I began to make the connection between the soul development
of "hetero-gender" and the physical state of
the "Alpha male, in my mind at that moment, dominant,
ego driven etc, and the opposite extreme "Homo-gendered" as
gay and lesbian.
Not so!
For those quicker of wit than
I am--what was the first mistake that should have jumped out at me? If you
guessed forgetting the title of
the article, "The Soul's
Development," you
are right.
But Zeb reminded me for
reasons only He knows that I am one of their two Speakers
and as such a devoted teacher of their
truth.
It is up to me to clarify my own mistakes when they are
brought to my attention by anyone--especially ZZ. For
anyone who demonstrates
anything less than full love and acceptance to any of their
spiritual brothers and sisters is not
demonstrating unconditional
love, love without
expectations and
judgments.
Perhaps this should show all
of us how easy it is to read over a spiritual text and not
"get it." Yet for me, each time
I
repeat the study,
something new opens up like a light coming on. I’m sure we have
all had this experience. Perhaps
that is part of the fun of it. Something "new" opens up
in our understanding every time we go over familiar material. We
never really reach the state where we know it all--at
least not in this physical plane. Our minds can't contain it
all and we must rely on
the
handicap of words.
Well, for this one Zeb
had to pull my chain a little to wake me up.
So
two women (or two men) providing both have reached the state of soul
development where they balance their inner feminine and masculine
tendencies (emotions, intuition, and sensitivity to intellect, logic and inner
strength--(Bi-Gender Balance) can
be
Twin Souls.
This
is brought about by the experience of life and is usually accelerated
by an awakening usually triggered by spiritual study. We are
working on a study guide that explains the process of spiritual development through
seven stages of
growth. This will also give Caryl's and my personal trials and tribulations of our paths as an
example of what we experienced.
Each
soul has their primary “soul-gender” or aspect, from
the moment of the first Twin
Soul split and they are incarnated as male and female.
But the soul is energy
it has no gender.
Perhaps force, aspect or orientation would be a better words.
Most
often one incarnates in that masculine or feminine aspect as male or female gender, but not always. Now the scenario becomes interesting. What if two women--one of
whom has a primary soul gender, force, aspect or orientation as
masculine--reach their bi-gender balance in the same lifetime? If
they are Twin Souls to each other they will be drawn together and
no power of "Heaven or Earth" can prevent it.
I'll bet most of you, like me, considered that those
words related to Twins who are married to their respective Companion
Mates--like Caryl and me. Well, that is one example, but not the only
one. Sexual persuasion can be another. When the time comes to
move, we are moved by powers beyond our control. This is the
Universal Law of Attraction ("like attracts like"). When
the souls are ready,
it happens.
You may wonder why a soul with a primary
masculine orientation would
incarnate as a female. Simple ...
To experience the fullness of the human experience you must have "walked in the
other's shoes,"
at least once in your many lifetimes. All
soul
development results from experience and if you haven't "been there and done
that" in at least one past or current life
then you have not experienced all of "the human
experience."
This is but one example of the learning experience of having "been
there and done that."
Read, The Dark Side of the Light Chasers
(see our recommended
reading list) for other examples of
life experience that helps develop empathy and true understanding
of oneness. To be complete we all experience every facet of life.
So the masculine
soul aspect we referred to above chooses for his final life
experience incarnation as a woman and reaches bi-gender
balance. Remember, Twin Soul reunion does not occur until
your final physical
incarnated life experience. She may well
live out her entire life experience heterosexually inclined, or
reach the point where she feels she has gained all there is from
that sexual persuasion and choose to become homosexually inclined, or somewhere in the middle (bisexually inclined). It is
up to her and her choices.
Once two who are incarnated reach bi-gender balance they will be drawn
together as One, regardless of gender or sexual persuasion. On
the Other side, it doesn't make any difference--we are all energy
over there.
Twin Flames, Twin
Souls & Yin and Yang
Once we were asked
what was the difference between "Twin Flames" and Twin
Souls and somewhere we answered, nothing, they are the
same. But it is worth mentioning again here.
The term "Twin
Flames" is of Sufi origin and "Twin Souls" dates back so far into antiquity its
origin can't be accurately determined, but
they both
refer to the masculine
and feminine aspects we all have within us and the special link each of us share with the other
half of our soul. It is
similar to the concept of "Yin & Yang." Some New Age writers don’t buy into the concept yet they still teach that we are
all composites of masculine and feminine natures and often use the
"intellect" and
"emotion" as contrasts. Few authoritative sources anymore
claim we are either "All Male" or "All
Female." Even psychologists
have bought into their own version of "Right-brain vs
Left-brain" orientation.
"A rose is a rose" regardless of what it’s called.
A Word About the Terminology we Use and Why
We have been asked why we use such terms as Composite
Soul, Bi-Gender Balance, Hetero-G and Homo-G etc.
We do use some new terms, but actually try as much as possible to
use terms that many will associate with. For instance the term God.
Caryl asked Zeb long ago if this term should be replaced with
something that is more in line with the multifaceted energy being
we are part of (God). However ZZ instructed us that changing the
word God would confuse the issue, and that when possible to use
the familiar and only re-term when what is typically used does not
actually fit the new understanding as given by ZZ.
For example, many might call the Composite Soul the
Higher
Self. And it is,
but the word Higher Self does not give the picture that we
are more than One. We are legion—and our higher self comprises
all of that which we are and have been. It took us some time to
agree on many of the terms that would more accurately define
ZZ’s teachings. The same goes for Bi-Gender Balance. Many call
this an androgynous state. But the word picture that brings is not
what we wished to imply. ZZ tells us that in physicality we are always
our created aspect even if we choose to incarnate as the opposite
gender—masculine or feminine. Feminine or Masculine does not
become a cross between the two—we simply balance the aspect of
our inner twin—the opposite aspect that is always part of
us but lays dormant until we begin to use it in balance. It is not
until we unite through the ceremony of the Marriage of Lights
on the Otherside that we become One androgynous being--in
essence fully reunited or merged with our Twin Soul.
We welcome your comments on this article and questions on
any other
term or concept we constantly use. But first check in the Glossary to see if it is there, and then if further clarification is still
necessary, please email us. If we don't know we will
take it to ZZ and we will share what we get here on The Voice.
We are all One and loved
by God as the Gods and Goddesses we are.
With Love to All,
Melvyn Caryl 6/4/05
Thank you
honoring and respecting
the following request…
Copyright ©2004
by Melvyn Caryl - all rights reserved.
None of the articles or messages on this website
may be copied in part or total without express
permission of the author, Melvyn Caryl.
Print Friendly
If you would
like to be added to our email announcement list, click on the
email link below and put "Announcement List" in the
subject line. Each time we add an article or ZZ Message to the
website, we will send you email notification.
|