Dear Melvyn Caryl,
I first met my twin in 1992, but I didn't know he was my Twin at the time.
After praying for guidance, I kept getting the intuitive urging to call this
man "Twin". But I didn't know that he was my twin.
In 2000 this person
came to visit me to "meditate". However, when he showed
up he was so excited to see me I wondered what was going on. I never really knew
this man in 1992, I simply worked for him for a short time.
It's hard to explain
the whole thing here, but I have had such intense synchronicities
(not of the kind you mention on your website) but more like signs
that I am supposed to be with this man and I haven't spoken with him since last December.
In the beginning, over 10 years ago, he was trying to get me to recognize him as
my TWIN, and then when I did,
he asked me if I wanted to "see each other" and when I
said yes, slowly he backed away. I am frustrated because he
has not responded to my letters and I have not been able to date
other people. I tried but I
feel HIM coming through them.
It has been difficult
to recognize the twin and have him run away. But more peace has
come into my being over the last couple of weeks. I found your
site by searching "unification of twin souls" on the web. There are
other websites I've read and many of them seem to be focused on
romantic notions of twins and painful dramas. The information you all are putting out feels more
accurate to me.
I feel that
connecting with you is a sign of healing as well as a cause, if
that makes sense. It is like what you spoke about in terms of outer and
inner. In your last email you said something to the effect of twin
souls either being "chartered to come together in this lifetime or
How does one know if your are intended to
come together, and how do I focus my energy? Where do I focus
my energy? I am really struggling with not being in a relationship
and feeling like I am supposed to be coming together with my Twin,
yet it hasn't happened yet, AND he has stopped communication with me.
you have any recommendations for specific prayers or anything like
this? Thank you so much for your
previous message and for your response in advance.
I do believe I understand what you are saying about finding the
information from Zeb & Zarna and feeling
a sense of peace and healing. Recognition of your twin is the first
step, and I know
it must be difficult
when you have such recognition and it seems as though your twin
denies or takes the connection so lightly.
I can not say for sure, but it sounds as if he is not ready. If
he is your twin, and only you would know, then I would suspect if reunion is to
take place it will happen later in your life. You probably read on
the site that some twins might
meet but that most twins do not
have joining until much later in their life --nearer 40's to 60. You
have done your spiritual
ground work and it
appears that you are on path.
questions: "How does one know if
are intended to come together?"
that I think you mean eventual joining. It is hard to say, but I
will tell you what I know, and what ZZ tells us. Joining will not happened,
if it is charted,
until both are at balanced state. (Bi-G Balance) If one or the other
is not ready then it
won't happen until you return to the Otherside. Even on the
Otherside, depending on your life goals and his, more work
may be needed in an alternate dimension before joining.
On the other hand, if two have not planned to
join and for some reason they both make huge strides toward spiritual maturity and both achieve balance-they will be brought together at any age! So the key is the spiritual maturity of both twins. One of our articles deals
directly with this balancing -- Finding You Soul
Compatible Chakra Balance.
This article may give you some
clues. My intuition tells me that in your case it is too soon for
that you may have other plans that have
to be fulfilled before union can take place.
Maturity is not
the only issue. When we chart our life there are things we
choose to experience, personal needs
that we plan to achieve before Twin joining can happen. This would go along with the
understanding that Twin Souls do not usually
together until later in life. You see Twin Soul joining marks the
finishing point of your Composite Soul's goals and concludes your
reincarnational cycle-meaning you have finished all the requirements
and are ready for ascension from the Astral Realm to the Mental
Plane. This can not be rushed.
said that at other sites you hear of romantic notions and painful
dramas. It is my observation that when Twins have recognition and
force the union, meaning coming together too
this is exactly what happens. It can be disastrous. Under the best
circumstances it can be difficult. So you do not
want an early reunion.
If it happens, be cautious and patient.
There are three steps to Twin Soul reunion. 1) The meeting and recognition.
2) The reunion where you get to know each other and have some physical contact. 3)
The final joining--the point of final
commitment-and the joining of your soul. The difficulties (dramas) we see between so
many twins usually
comes in the stages between 2 and 3. Most
twins who experience struggles
they are joined when they are not. They are simply reunited. Time will tell if they can let go of ego enough
to achieve the union of spirit it takes to join.
There is nothing wrong with relationships with other soul mates during this
time--even when you have recognition of your TS. And there is
noting wrong with trying to keep the lines of communication between
you and your twin open if that is possible.
As for prayers. They would be for your peace of mind and help with
direction. Simply talk to God. You need no special prayers. I do it every day. The difference is, for me they
talk back. It's called Channeling. You can achieve this too.
Simply state what you want to know, and need help with, and if you
do not `hear' the answer, look for your Spirit Guides to send you
signs of guidance. They are always there if we pay attention. I
speak to ZZ, and sometimes the higher Gods above. I am never
disappointed for they provide for me that which I need when I
don't know I even have a need. They will for you too, if not directly through your guides.
The biggest mistake I see with so many is Obsessing
about your twin. Let
divine providence take its course. With twins, empathy is strong and often you
feel your twin, which is natural,
and it is easy to become obsessed with the goal
of joining and
forget the journey.
How to refocus your energies? I cannot say what your
chart is, but you have such a lovely spirit I would say that perhaps you are ready for service to others--not in terms of emotion
or rescue, but in true spiritual service.
In the article, Attitudes on Marriage, under the heading of
"What is the Zeb and Zarna Twin Soul Mission?" I have
pasted parts of the section here -you may wish to read the whole
together our Spiritual Family from all over the world through
"The Voice "
for a healing of hearts and minds, plus the environment in which you live...
We have begun to form Healing Teams, where we do coordinated remote healing
for anyone who requests help
with healing--and in the near future these teams will become earth
healing teams that will assist in restoring our
environment. If this appeals to you, and you would like to be
involved in this type of service
we would welcome your help.
I think your spirituality and practices will serve you
well in not getting caught up in the typical 'dramas' that
you spoke about. Take a deep breath and focus your life in
service. The rest will just happen.
Love always, Caryl
I appreciate your help beyond what I could ever express. I have
been trying to clarify/understand this stuff for about 6 years
! ! ! ! ! And have suffered so much. Oh
my God. My journey with this twin soul stuff has been extremely painful. And, for the FIRST time
I feel some real clarity about it and RELIEF ! !
Also, do you have any idea what I have sent myself to do
in this life? [I guess I'm doing it.] But I have always wanted
to have a real spiritual companion. I'll read the chakra /soul
mate stuff on your site.
Would love to meet you and your friends.
Blessings to you and
you honoring and respecting
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